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A birth plan template that actually works in the delivery room

Shelbi Kohler, certified birth doula

Shelbi Kohler, certified birth doula, 500+ families supported

A birth plan template is a structured form that helps you write down your preferences for labor, pain management, delivery, and newborn care, so your medical team can read it at a glance.

This one is built by a certified doula, not a generic hospital form. Choose your path: print the fillable PDF, watch the free video walkthrough with Shelbi, or build your plan step by step in the free app.

Preview of the free birth plan template — a structured multi-page document covering labor preferences, pain management, delivery, postpartum, and newborn care
📄 Free PDF 🎬 Free video walkthrough 📱 Free app

Three ways to build your birth plan

Choose how you want to get started — all three are free

Free PDF

Download, fill in by hand or type. Print copies for your hospital bag. No email needed.

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Free Video Walkthrough

5 short videos with a certified doula explaining every section. Watch in one evening.

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Free App

Interactive step-by-step guide. Update your plan anytime, share with your care team and doula.

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All three cover the same five sections. Use them together or pick the one that works for you.

Free birth plan walkthrough

Walk through every section with a certified doula — free

Want to understand why each section matters before you fill it out? These 5 short videos walk through the entire Joyful Birth Plan — from labor preferences to backup plans — so you fill it out with confidence, not confusion.

Video thumbnail: Shelbi introduces the Joyful Birth Plan
Module 1

About Me & Your Birth Plan

How to fill in the section that helps your care team see you as a person. What to include in your flexibility statement and how to note your preferences.

▶ ~5 min
Video thumbnail: Labor, delivery, and pain management walkthrough
Module 2

Labor, Delivery & Pain Management

Monitoring, IV, movement, environment, and the full pain management ladder — what each choice looks like in the room and how to talk to your provider about it.

▶ ~8 min
Video thumbnail: Post-delivery preferences walkthrough
Module 3

Post-Delivery Preferences

Skin-to-skin, cord clamping, golden hour, feeding preferences — the decisions that happen fast after delivery, explained before you're in the moment.

▶ ~6 min
Video thumbnail: Newborn care preferences walkthrough
Module 4

Newborn Care Preferences

Vitamin K, Hep B, eye ointment, circumcision, rooming-in, newborn screenings — what's standard, what's optional, and how to state your preference clearly.

▶ ~5 min
Video thumbnail: Advocacy, backup plans and flexibility language
Module 5

Advocacy, Backup Plans & More

What to say when something unexpected comes up — consent phrases, flexibility language for when plans change, and how to stay in the conversation.

▶ ~7 min
Watch the free walkthrough

Free with your email. 5 short videos — watch in one evening or one module at a time.

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True Joy Birthing app birth plan showing completed sections for labor preferences, pain management, and delivery

Free app

Build your birth plan step by step in the app

Nine guided sections. Hospital preferences, pain management, who's in the room — all walked through so nothing gets missed.

  • Step-by-step guidance for every section
  • Update your plan anytime — not a static PDF
  • Share directly with your care team or doula
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What's inside

Five sections your nurse actually needs

01

Labor preferences

Who's in the room, movement during labor, monitoring, induction birth plan preferences, the decisions that come up first.

02

Pain management

Epidural timing, alternative comfort measures, your stance on being offered pain medication, written in language your team understands.

03

Delivery preferences

Positions, who cuts the cord, skin-to-skin, delayed cord clamping, what you want in the moment your baby arrives.

04

Postpartum care

Breastfeeding support, placenta delivery, who you want in recovery, the first hours after birth, documented.

05

Newborn care

Circumcision, vaccinations, feeding preferences, rooming-in, what you want for your baby from the start.

The best templates don't just list checkboxes. They help you think through why you prefer something, and give you the language to communicate it clearly.

How to use this template

Five steps from blank page to hospital bag

01

Download the fillable PDF.

It's free, no email required. Type directly into it, or print it and fill it in by hand. For live updates and doula sharing, use the free app.

02

Review each section with your partner.

Talk through labor preferences, pain management, delivery, postpartum care, and newborn care. Get aligned before the big day.

03

Fill in your preferences.

Mark what matters most to you. You don't need to answer every item, focus on what you actually want, not what you think you should want.

04

Bring it to your next appointment.

Share your draft with your OB or midwife. Ask them to flag anything that might not be possible at your specific hospital or birth center. If you're planning a hospital birth, our hospital birth plan guide walks through the preferences that matter most in a hospital setting.

05

Pack it in your hospital bag.

Print a few copies. Give one to your partner, one to your doula, and keep one in your hospital bag. When you're in labor, you won't be searching for it. If you're still figuring out what a doula does and how they use your birth plan, see our guide to what a doula is.

Why this template

Built for the delivery room, not a Pinterest board

Most free birth plan templates you find online are generic checklists, they ask if you want an epidural or not, if you want music or not, and leave it at that.

This template was built by Shelbi Kohler, a certified birth doula who has sat in delivery rooms across Texas. It's organized around the decisions that actually come up when you're in labor, the ones your care team needs to see at a glance, not the ones that look nice on a Pinterest board. For real-world inspiration, see our birth plan examples from families who've used it.

It's structured so a nurse can read it in 30 seconds. That matters. When you're 6 centimeters dilated and your nurse is covering for someone else's shift, your birth plan needs to speak for you immediately.

And if your birth plan needs to account for a specific situation, like being induced, the template still works — see our induction birth plan template for guidance. For surgical deliveries, see what to include if you end up needing a C-section.

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Want personalized support?

Need someone to review your plan with you — line by line?

The free PDF and walkthrough give you the tools and the knowledge. But if you want a certified birth doula to look at your plan, your hospital, and your concerns — that's the Birth Plan Confidence Session.

A 60–75 minute live Zoom call with Shelbi. Real feedback on your specific plan. Advocacy role-play for the conversations you're most worried about. $250 per session. Limited spots.

Learn about the Confidence Session
Joyful Birth Plan booklet preview showing structured cover page for labor, delivery, postpartum, and newborn care

Get Your Free Joyful Birth Plan

The free Joyful Birth Plan covers every decision: labor preferences, pain management, who's in the room, what happens after delivery.

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Common questions

What should a birth plan template include?

A good birth plan template covers labor preferences, pain management options, delivery positions, postpartum care preferences, and newborn care decisions. It should be organized, concise, and easy for your care team to scan quickly.

Is this birth plan template really free?

Yes. The fillable PDF is completely free — no email, no upsell, no catch. The 5-video walkthrough is also free; we ask for your email so we can send you access and check in with tips as you fill out your plan.

Is the video walkthrough really free?

Yes. The 5-video walkthrough is completely free — just enter your name and email and youll get immediate access to every module. No payment, no trial, no upsell. We ask for your email so we can send you the link and check in with tips as you fill out your plan.

How is the walkthrough different from the PDF?

The PDF is the template — the form you fill out. The walkthrough is a certified doula explaining what each section means, why each choice matters, and how to talk to your provider about it. They work together: download the PDF, then watch the videos as you fill it in.

Can I edit the birth plan template?

The PDF is fillable, type directly into it or print it and fill it in by hand. For live updates, doula sharing, and a guided walkthrough, use the free True Joy Birthing app.

How is this different from a birth plan I find on Google?

Most free templates online are generic checklists. This one was built by a certified birth doula and organized around the decisions that actually come up in the delivery room, not just wish-list items.

What's the difference between the PDF and the app?

The PDF is free, fillable, and designed for print — write in your preferences and bring hard copies to the hospital. The free app goes further: it walks you through each section with guided videos, lets you update your plan anytime (not just before printing), and shares your live plan with your doula or partner directly. Both cover the same five sections; the app is for families who want an interactive, always-current experience.

When should I fill out my birth plan?

Most families start around 28-32 weeks. Earlier is fine too. The sooner you understand your options, the more confident you'll feel when the time comes.

Joyful Birth Plan checklist with sections for labor, monitoring, and postpartum preferences

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Get the Free Video Walkthrough

Enter your name and email and we'll send you immediate access to all 5 walkthrough videos — a certified doula guiding you through every section of your birth plan. Already have the PDF? The videos work alongside it. No spam, just the guidance you need.

No spam. Just your birth plan and occasional tips you can actually use.

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Already have a plan? Book a Birth Plan Confidence Session

Want to understand every choice on it? Watch the free walkthrough